So I know from what I’ve been reading that the whole point of a relationship is that what makes it real and meaningful is that you open up and put yourself in place where you’re vulnerable or where you can be hurt.
And I know that these sorts of issues and this pain only has more complexity if more than one relationship is involved.
But I also realize that I have to look after myself and lead towards what I want in life, otherwise I’m similarly choosing to let these things pass me by. It’s not my job or my responsibility to manage others or decide what they need or what will keep them from hurting.
Anyway, this is a stupid post and mostly just a rant. Goodnight all.
justaspacecadet 
Not stupid at all. 🙂
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